I don't know enough about your specific problem to offer a solution - But port forwarding (or the lack there of) is usually the culprit. Although I could swear that Starbound uses Steamworks multiplayer, which should be automatically routed by most hardware in this day and age if I recall correctly.
You should look into Evolve. It allows you to play starbound with your internet friends as well. port forwarding should work too, but Evolve is simpler.
oh. right their forum... well no matter. thanks for the tips (ages after I got it) but at least now that the game has been released it's functioning good.
If any moderators see this you may close the discussion with my blessing.
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