When a crisis arises I see the text "you gained a territory that is adjecent to mine"

I am not sure who is saying this to who. It could very well be me me saying that they gained a territory adjecent to this mine. Or it could be them saying that I gained a territory that is adjacent to theirs. Using names or symbols of clans could be helpful here or maybe even audio would help as well.

You might have taken a screenshot you could provide ? That would be helpful to understand in which tab you were when you saw this.

In any case, as an example, when you'd go to the crisis tab, you'd get your demands next to your leader, and the opponent's demands next to their leader. You could click on each of them (yours and theirs) to get a tooltip text/window explaining the demand.

Main crisis screen :

Once you click on a demand (btw same kind of typo as the one you reported in another post) :