One of my allies (United Empire) needed my help in one ot the fronts to fight off the Cravers assault. While my armada crossed (at least) 6 systems to get there, they tell me that they are wounded because I didn't help them in the time of need. I make a stop in one of their system to destroy a Craver assault on one of their bases and they where grateful again, but the "you didn't help us" was still there (but remained loyal). Then, after holding on my own wave after wave of Cravers assaults ships, I need to go back to my capital because the main quest line of the Hissho spawned a behemont class ship heading to that direction (I always hate when quest put threats out of nowhere, but I guess I'm thankful that the behemont didn't siege my capital), and UE start again with "you don't help us", and I'm like: buddy, I got problems of my own, I'll be there in a sec.

I guess I'm a little tilted beceause I straight saved their asses and they give me the blame treament.