I want to create an avatar I didn't know how so when the tutorial just starts I thought I'd back out to fix my avatar but silly me when I backed out instead of restarting the tutorial I just get the start screen pretty much saying well you took too long Good luck. Fantastic way to start the game

The tutorial messages popping up during any plathrough are virtually identical to the ones from the First-Time User Experience. The only difference (as far as I know, but I might be mistaken) is that the game that starts from your first game launch always uses the same seed.

So, even if you backed out of the initial tutorial match, you should still receive the full tutorialization.